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Religious Trauma Therapy for Colorado Adults

“It feels like leaving an abusive relationship”

What is religious trauma?

Religious trauma is a specific type of trauma. Trauma overwhelms a person’s sense of safety and control, making them feel helpless. Religious trauma occurs when a person feels overwhelmed, unsafe, or helpless by “God,” one’s religious leader, and/or one’s religious community. Symptoms of religious trauma may look like self-hatred, guilt, fear regarding eternal punishment, shame around sexuality and aspects of age-appropriate sexual development, self-blame, inability to experience joy or pleasure, or hyperreligiosity to attempt to reduce one’s sense of anxiety or doubt. Religious trauma can happen anywhere “God” is used to justify actions that harm people. This can be in a specific location, like a church or mosque, or in relationships, such as a small group or marriage. Religious trauma is unique in that people who endure religious abuse generally initially believe that this messaging cannot be questioned as it comes from “God.” The person then generally blames themself in not being able to maintain the thoughts, beliefs, and/or behaviors they have been taught God demands of them. This incongruence creates a cycle of self-loathing, shame, and self-doubt.

How does EMDR help with religious trauma?

Based on extensive peer-reviewed research, EMDR generally works more quickly and comprehensively than any other current, known  talk therapy treatment for adverse life experiences or trauma. EMDR re-wires neural brain circuits through bilateral stimulation, or stimulation of both brain spheres, through eye movements, vibrations, or tapping, to bring relief from unwanted symptoms to better identify and create the life you want.

The specific process of EMDR involves identifying the positive ways you want to see yourself and more fully be present in the spaces and relationships you inhabit. EMDR then reinforces these identified positive beliefs through your brain’s neural network. Through this process, relief and improvement can more deeply and quickly occur due to the nature and effectiveness of the bilateral stimulation.

At the EMDR Center of Denver, we believe that every person who has experienced religious trauma deserves healing. We are dedicated to creating a safe and supportive space for all clients in identifying what they assess as the most life-giving way forward. Schedule your first session with us today to experience relief and closure.

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What do online EMDR sessions for religious trauma look like?

  1. A free 15-minute consultation. You ask questions, we learn what you are looking for, and together we decide whether we are a good fit. Book a time.
  2. A first session focused on your story. We gather history, set the goals you want to reach, and build coping skills before any memory work begins.
  3. Weekly one-hour sessions, or intensives. Standard sessions run about an hour. Most EMDR intensives are 90 minutes or two hours. Current fees are on the Rates page.
  4. Online, anywhere in Colorado. Sessions run on a secure, HIPAA-compliant video platform, so you can do this work from your own space. We are licensed to work with adults who live in Colorado, from Denver to Colorado Springs and Fort Collins. Read how online EMDR works.
  5. Support between sessions. If a quick check-in would help between appointments, you are welcome to call or text us.

Religious Trauma: frequently asked questions

What counts as religious trauma?
Religious trauma happens when God, a religious leader, or a religious community leaves you feeling overwhelmed, unsafe, or helpless. Purity culture, anti-LGBTQ messaging, fear of eternal punishment, and high-control groups are common sources, but it can happen in any setting where God is used to justify harm.
Do I have to leave my faith to do this work?
No. We are not here to talk you into or out of belief. Therapy gives you space to sift through the script you were handed and decide for yourself what is life-giving. Some clients leave their tradition, some stay with a changed relationship to it, and some land somewhere in between.
How does EMDR help with religious trauma?
EMDR targets the specific experiences behind the shame, guilt, and self-doubt, such as a sermon, a confrontation, or a moment of being shunned, and reprocesses them so they stop driving how you see yourself. It then strengthens the beliefs you want to hold about who you are.
Is there a screening tool for religious trauma?
Yes. The Adverse Religious Experiences Questionnaire, linked on this page, is a useful starting point. It does not replace a clinical evaluation, but it can help you name what happened.
Are sessions online or in person?
All sessions are online over a secure, HIPAA-compliant video platform. We work with adults who live anywhere in Colorado, from Denver and Boulder to Colorado Springs, Fort Collins, and the mountain towns. Research shows online EMDR is as effective as in-office EMDR for most people.
How do I get started?
Schedule a free 15-minute phone consultation. We answer your questions, learn what you are looking for, and make sure we are a good fit. If we are, we book your first session, which focuses on your story and the goals you want to reach in therapy.

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