
LGBTQ+ Affirming Therapy for Colorado Adults
“I want to feel safe existing and celebrate who I am”
Does this sound familiar?
Not feeling emotionally and/or physically safe to exist in the spaces you sometimes occupy due to who you love or how you identify. Growing up with the unspoken conditioning to conform to the straight, cisgendered (identifying with one’s assigned gender at birth) world around you despite a nagging sense you are compromising parts of who you truly are. Constant scanning and assessment of whether a person or space is safe for you to exist or flourish as yourself. Coded speech or behavior until assessing a person or space as not an active threat or risk to emotional or bodily harm if you were to be fully present as yourself.
The EMDR Center of Denver provides identity-affirming therapy and counseling services for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Gender Variant, Queer and Questioning adults and the families of LGBTQIA+ individuals.
Queer-owned, LGBTQ+ affirming therapy across Colorado
Owned and operated by a queer couple, EMDR Center of Denver is deeply dedicated to supporting members of the LGBTQIA+ community and providing LGBTQIA-affirming therapy throughout Colorado–for folks living in Colorado Springs, Fort Collins, Pueblo, Greeley and beyond—so that all sexual minorities may flourish and thrive.
For folks who are exploring or unsure regarding their sexual orientation and/or gender identity, therapy at the EMDR Center of Denver can be an incredibly supportive and empowering experience. We use a collaborative approach to therapy to help individuals more fully embrace who they are in a way that feels self-paced, safe, and affirming. Through therapy, you can work towards greater self-acceptance, self-love, and self-discovery.
We also offer support for gender-variant folks and their families. Transgender and gender non-binary identified-individuals experience unique challenges. Gender-affirming therapy through the EMDR Center of Denver can provide a supportive and empowering space for growth.
EMDR Center of Denver also works with families in providing individual therapy to build greater awareness and understanding regarding a loved one’s sexual orientation and/or gender identity in the “coming out” process that non-queer family member’s also navigate in supporting and communicating about their LGBTQIA+ loved ones.
How does EMDR help LGBTQ+ adults?
Based on extensive peer-reviewed research, EMDR generally works more quickly and comprehensively in addressing negative effects of adverse or traumatic life events than any other current known talk therapy treatment for adults. EMDR rewires neural brain circuits through bilateral stimulation, or stimulation of both brain spheres through eye movements, vibrations, or tapping, to bring relief from painful conditioning or adverse life experiences to better identify and create the life you want.
The EMDR process involves identifying the specific positive ways you want to see yourself and more fully be present in the spaces and relationships you inhabit. EMDR then reinforces these desired positive beliefs through your brain’s biological neural network.
At the EMDR Center of Denver, we are here to create a safe space for every LGBTQIA+ person to more fully create the life you want through compassionate, individualized care. In the words of Audre Lorde, ‘If I didn’t define myself for myself, I would be crunched into other people’s fantasies for me and eaten alive.’ In our work together, we will help you more fully create the life you want by ‘defining yourself for yourself’–sifting through all the voices around you so that you may more fully identify and honor your own. This process remains the task and the gift of a lifetime.
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Invest in yourself through effective, evidence-based treatment that yields proven results.
Supporting Research for EMDR Treatment and LGBTQ+ Affirming Care:
- Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing in the Treatment of Traumatized Gay Men
- Predicting adult LGBTQ happiness: Impact of childhood affirmation, self-compassion, and personal mastery
- Intimate partners: A context for the intensification and healing of emotional pain
- Moving past trauma: EMDR has helped LGBTQ patients overcome toxic feelings
- EMDR therapy as affirmative care for transgender and nonbinary clients
- Sex assignment, gender assignment, and affectional orientation: Applying continua of congruence to dismantle dichotomies
What do online EMDR sessions for LGBTQ+ adults look like?
- A free 15-minute consultation. You ask questions, we learn what you are looking for, and together we decide whether we are a good fit. Book a time.
- A first session focused on your story. We gather history, set the goals you want to reach, and build coping skills before any memory work begins.
- Weekly one-hour sessions, or intensives. Standard sessions run about an hour. Most EMDR intensives are 90 minutes or two hours. Current fees are on the Rates page.
- Online, anywhere in Colorado. Sessions run on a secure, HIPAA-compliant video platform, so you can do this work from your own space. We are licensed to work with adults who live in Colorado, from Denver to Colorado Springs and Fort Collins. Read how online EMDR works.
- Support between sessions. If a quick check-in would help between appointments, you are welcome to call or text us.
LGBTQ+ Affirming Care: frequently asked questions
What does LGBTQ+ affirming therapy mean here?
Do you work with people who are questioning or not out?
Do you work with transgender and nonbinary clients?
Can family members of LGBTQ+ people work with you?
Are sessions online or in person?
How do I get started?
How It Works
Getting started is simple — and the first conversation is free.
You don't have to carry this alone.
Schedule your free 15-minute consultation today and see how EMDR can help you get your life back.
Related reading
Articles from our clinicians on LGBTQ+ adults and how EMDR works.
LGBTQ-Affirming EMDR Therapy: Healing From Minority Stress, Not Just the Symptoms It Causes
Minority stress and discrimination leave a mark. See how LGBTQ-affirming EMDR therapy helps, what research says, and how online EMDR works across Colorado.
Does Virtual EMDR Work?
Does virtual EMDR work? What the research says about online EMDR, how bilateral stimulation is done over video, and who it suits. Online across Colorado.
Mindfulness and EMDR: How They Can be Used Together
Mindfulness and EMDR reinforce each other. Learn how present-moment awareness supports reprocessing and what to expect in sessions. Online EMDR in Colorado.
What is EMDR?
What EMDR is, how bilateral stimulation works, the eight phases of treatment, and who it helps. From EMDR Center of Denver, online for adults across Colorado.
